Signing a Prenup: What To Expect and Prepare

Signing a prenup is a big decision. It’s a significant step, one that you and your partner take together as you look toward marriage and beyond. It’s an opportunity to connect, share information and goals, and create a plan together.

At Neptune, we understand how important it is for couples to be on the same page about a prenup. That’s why Neptune is a relationship-first service. Think of us as a prenup concierge that sets couples up to grow wealth, trust, and success together.

In this article, let’s first understand what signing a prenup consists of and how you can best prepare for it.

What Does Signing a Prenup Do?

Signing a prenup means you and your partner have agreed to its terms. The good news is that you both have the opportunity before signing to work out those goals and objectives in advance.

You also have the flexibility to create conditions and guidelines that matter to you. Remember, a prenup is a strategy for planning for the future and a type of collaboration that can help you feel good about the years ahead.

After you collaborate to create an agreement that you both stand behind, you can then sign it. Signing the document means agreeing to follow the clauses within that document. Once in place, it’s legally binding, unless a court determines there is a reason to throw it out.

Why Does Signing a Prenup Matter to You?

In any relationship, the decision to exchange vows means you must prepare for significant changes on the horizon. You’re taking two separate lives and bringing them together in a single partnership. When you create this type of partnership, you need to be sure both of you are on the same page. By doing so, you encourage open communication and strengthen your relationship as you grow together.

Here are just a few ways a prenup can bring immense value and clarity into your partnership:

• A prenup allows you to have an open conversation about finances before the wedding. During this time, you and your partner will disclose your financial information. Yes, this can be a tricky and sensitive topic, but it can also bring you much closer together as you work toward the same goals.
• A prenup allows you to make important decisions about your future in advance. That can include decisions over inheritance and children, which are two potentially significant life changes. This type of clarity can help you maintain a good relationship and understanding with your partner since you both have the chance to talk through your thoughts on these significant changes honestly.
• You create a solution that works for both of you. It’s normal for couples not to see eye to eye on all details in a draft prenup at first. But the open communication that a prenup fosters allows you to have those conversations in a much more meaningful (and healthy) way.

Signing a prenup enables you to get on the same page when it comes to major decisions in your partnership. When you talk to your partner about the points that matter to you, especially regarding money and financial planning, you facilitate a better level of communication from the start of your marriage. 

You can make confident decisions together about your future and start creating the blueprint for solid financial planning.

What Should You Do Before Signing a Prenup?

We understand that signing a prenup isn’t something to take lightly. So, before you make any monumental decisions together, we have a few tips to keep in mind that can help you structure your agreement.

1. Learn and understand your options

Before signing a prenup, talk to your significant other about your goals and needs. Be open and flexible about finding a plan that works well for you both. Successful relationships often involve a bit of give and take, and a prenup discussion could be part of that. 

Talk through which assets and finances each of you has now and discuss future assets for greater peace of mind.

2. Find clarity in prenup terms

At Neptune, we’ll help you find a qualified family law attorney who can help ensure you fully understand your prenup before signing. Don’t be afraid to ask questions if you are unclear about something. 

The goal is to ensure this document is a careful and thoughtful representation of both of your wishes. Remember, each of you should have your own lawyer. Judges can invalidate prenups if a couple shares one lawyer.

3. Set goals early on

Just as you've invested time in building your relationship, take time to reflect on your shared goals so you can make clearer, more confident decisions together.

As you head into the prenup planning phase, make sure to have a list of goals and values you wish to discuss openly with your partner. 

This can include:

• Your long-term financial goals
• Income and financial responsibilities
• Spousal support and household expenses
• Inheritance and estate planning
• Major financial expectations
• Treatment of future income
• Property and real estate ownership

Shared financial goals in a committed relationship are a good thing. When you both decide to have a prenup, you are investing in your future. 

Sign a Prenup Confidently With Neptune

Neptune isn’t like other prenup services. The typical prenup process starts with discovery calls with lawyers and paperwork. Neptune’s starts with understanding. 

Neptune’s emotionally intelligent AI assistant guides couples through what’s often considered an impossible conversation about assets and expectations before legal documents are drafted. 

By creating alignment and clarity up front, it transforms a typically tense process into what Neptune users describe as "relationship-strengthening."

Ready to start the path toward signing a prenup? Start the conversation with Neptune today.